seukdom

Control. Bondage. Sensuality. Sexuality.

I'm more switch than dom, but more dom than sub. Labels are a necessary uselessness; They are nothing but a starting point.

I'm a mature Male, fit, active, kinky (who isn't?) seeking clever, intelligent, sassy, submissive women who are not beige and are willing to submit to me.

Generally uninhibited, pretty unfazeable (seen too much), open to new ideas and fringe – always have been, always will be.
I have my limits – everyone does. But I'm constantly reviewing myself.

And the moment you interact with me, you've changed me. I am Schrodinger's cat.

What am I looking for?
Hmmm, someone who'll read my profile would be a good start LOL!
What I'm really looking for friendship and total trust.
Someone with whom I can share exploration.
Of anything.


I'm not really looking for 'The One' or 'Love'. We all change over time and 'The One' today is likely 'The Millstone' in 1, 10, 30... years time. And not having had much Love (as I imagine it should be) in my life, I probably wouldn't know Love if it drove a bus over me!

I'm not looking for 24x7 or casual or part time. I'm looking for consistent.
I love sex but it's almost ancillary - Sensuality is necessary though. Physical and cerebral.

And I'm really, really into bondage. I'm Mr Rigger, but for the right person I might even be the bondage bunny.

I need intelligence. I simply don't suffer fools particularly well. So if you use txt speak in an email... move along please.

And I always welcome discussion and discourse – there's no end to what I can learn.
And perhaps teach along the way.