Dom_quixote2004

I've been involved in "power exchange" relationships for over 30 years. Some people call it BDSM, but whatever you call it, if you have an interest, then you know what I mean. I started in the submissive role in my first relationship, which lasted 6 years, and have mostly been in the dominant role since then. While I primarily seek a woman who prefers the submissive role, I would also be happy with a switch or dominant woman, if the chemistry and evertthing else was there.

I am seeking a full, committed relationship, not just bdsm play. I have a real life, own my own business and home, and seek someone to share all of life with. I am attracted to women who are highly intelligent, confident, trustworthy and kinky. Age isn't that important, as long as you are over 18. Physical appearance isn't a top priority for me either, theough I do not in general find myself attracted to women who are obese. That doesn't mean I won't talk to you, but it does mean if you want to be in a committed relationship with me, that losing weight must be a priority.

As far as my description, I am 5'10, 190 lbs and losing weight slowly. I'm in pretty good shape. I'm 54, have steel blue eyes and short dark hair. I am divorced with 2 teenaged boys who don't live with me, though they are a huge part of my life.

I have all the usual IM programs, including skype and web cam. If you want to talk, I will want to talk on the phone and online with webcam to both show the other we are who we say we are. There are way too many fakes and game players on line, and I won't spend any time talking with anyone who won't prove they are real and serious. You can find me on fetlife as domquixote2004, if you prefer to talk there, and I do have pics on that account. I will send them on request.

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